January 5, 2013
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Men Who Turn the "On" Button "Off"
Men who talk excessively during sex make the fire down below go cold. Men who always want it to be all about them and nothing for us just kill the flame. Also, men who get off before us yet do not succeed in giving us an orgasm because they roll off and over to go to sleep after they got their 'happy' and we got the pass, which pisses us off and leaves us unsatisfied.Men who always obsess over their homeboys and their mama just annoy us especially when they say, "Boo, I'm hanging with the boys," while we waste our time waiting on them which leaves us feeling rejected and angry. A man who is constantly working and has no time for play makes us feel second best and some of us go searching for the attention we seek because our bodies crave that skin to skin contact and connection with our mate.Some even compare us to their exes constantly which we automatically find revolting and unappealing. Others ignore us on a daily basis and refuse to give us pleasure yet want us to stay. And there is the type that changes moods like their underwear which does not keep the 'puta' wet because we never know when the screws in that brain are going to come loose.An unshaven penis just murders the mood because it is downright nasty. Pubic hairs in the mouth ain't happening. Men who brag about their penis size to everyone are annoying.These are the men who make the pussy dry up.What turns you off?
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Um... wow. Maybe you need to start hanging with different kinds of guys? The ones you're talking about sound like real ghetto idiots.I've met guys like that before, but I don't bother wasting my time getting close enough to hear them talk to me like that. As for unshaven penises, to each her own.. I think the prepubescent look is weird. I don't understand why everyone wants to look completely hairless. I do believe in keeping everything trimmed and neat, for both parties, but I don't think anyone should be expected to shave their genitals.. relationships nowadays seem to be all about women taking control over men. Now, while most guys appreciate your honest opinion on their clothing, facial hear, etc. (just like you should appreciate their honest opinion and take it into consideration just as he would), it doesn't mean he's your personal Ken doll to dress up and play with. I got off topic but I'm not talking to you directly, more women in general.Anyway, you sound young. Now is a good time to figure yourself out and become whole within. Then, when you're ready, move somewhere or go off to college and enter a different environment. Experience being different people in different places, and decide who and where you like the best. Then you know what you'll want in a partner.
My list is not that specific and it is pretty short. A man that comes off as being unintelligent, misogynistic, and/or overly sexist (and yes they are two different things)I don't care about the relationship a guy has with his mother so long as he doesn't say things like "do X like my mommy used to" in bed even if we are just cuddling. Weird. Gross. NO. It only happened once. No need to add it to my list."Also, men who get off before us yet do not succeed in giving us an orgasm because they roll off and over to go to sleep after they got their 'happy'"There is nothing I like to do more than see how fast I can make a guy cum no matter if he wants it to go fast or not. Putting them to sleep is like icing on the cake. It's satisfying in a different kind of way. To each their own I guess.I can't wait to see the responses to the male version of this.
Welcome to Datingish, the website where women bitch about men all the time and are in good company, but if a man bitches about women he's either a sexist pig, a misogynist, or a douchebag. Double standards FTW.
Poorly written posts turn me off. Congratulations, darling.
Ignore the other commentors, they are jealous of your gothic undertones. Ya those are pretty standard turn offs. I'm glad the bar is so low though - makes it so much easier for me
Stupidity turns me off. Stupidity and adolescent ignorance. Nothing turns me off faster than a girl who thinks that a guy who "works too much" is a turn off. I work 60+ hours a week because we need the money and... well, I have to, so I do it. And my wife loves me.
whiny bitches.
actually, can we focus a little bit on the positive? i'm really into girls who like shitty top 40 music. cause as shitty as it is, i fucking *love* dancing to that shit. and singing it, too. nothing makes life worth living like walking back home at 5 in the morning singing some well-written kesha lyrics. lookin' for some trouble tonight!
"These are the men who make the pussy dry up." Then try someone new. Take a hold of the scene. Do something about it. I use to focus on turn offs. And yes, things can bug me or change my mood, or make me no longer interested in someone. Everyone is human we dislike and like things in people. I just now a days don't see the point in focusing on the bad, or things I dislike. Mostly because there isn't a real point in posting turn off lists. You already know what turns you off. Why broadcast it?
Are there men who shave their penises? Yikes! "I'll let you cum in my mouth, but if a single hair gets past my lips, this deal is over..." interesting mindset...anywhooI don't disagree with most of this list. I am sorta attracted to cocky men when we're shooting the breeze, not obnoxiously cocky one's but the one's like big brash boys..but in bed, cocky men are often flops. Bragging to ME about their skills...hey sir, let ME be the judge cause I really don't care what made your ex wax poetic. And the number one thing that makes me clamp the legs and roll over...him bitching about work in bed. I don't want his crazy bitch supervisor to be the woman he is focusing on when he's between the sheets, even if he's not fantasizing about her, three is a crowd.
I refuse to play with a shaved penis. I feel like I'm with a child, no thanks.
Oh gosh. People and a little pubic hair make me laugh. It's like natural. You grow hair down there. It happens. lol Everyone is overly anal about it. As long as it's trimmed or whatever who cares. Stop being so damn shallow. If it's trimmed it doesn't get all on your mouth. lol mah gawd.Anyways.What are you turned on by then? lol You got a long list. I don't really get turned off unless I hear them treating women like only a piece of ass or something. Unless I WANT to be treated that way. lol I also get turned off by like guys who flat iron they're hair and feminine things like that. I don't get turned off that easily though. I have a pretty high libido.
@testyman666@xanga - No, pretty sure she's just an idiot.
Oh look, Datingish is soliciting articles from highschoolers now.
i have 26 credits! i can add a mini!
Good post.@bloggicus_maximus@xanga - What up, tootsie troll? Now say something nice instead of jumping in to criticize only when 99% of people commenting share the same sentiment.You're like a bonus asshole multiplier. I have more respect for people who are assholes directly and by themselves. Tell me, how does that make you feel?
meaty vaginas, like if it looks like a box of cow tongues. that is a turn off fo show.
Oh, dear. I want to cry for humanity now!
I like waxed supermodel bodies. david gandy-he is so delectable. he resembles my boss crush at work. I'd eat him alive. it'll take days, weeks, years to sex him up. thinking about watching him doing pushups turns me on, too. he elicits so many fantasies. I don't want to change him. I'll just date someone, who is already customized the way that I like it and he does it all on his own before he met me meaning he already loves working out, shaving, wearing clothing styles that he likes and that I also find sexy, etc. I'm not going to wait around making a fuss and wasting time about the guy that I can't stand when there is already a guy or some guys that appeal to me and vice versa.
lol-- what is this: turn offs from the late Queen Victoria? "WE are not amused!" I, am not entirely turned ON by any of these, but I can see some times these 'turn off's don't actually turn me off.I was going to make general comments (For myself, obviously not encircled in the above post's 'us'): but I have decided to just go by list points 1 at a time. (Just cause this post made me laugh) It ended up being really long so it's here instead: http://denimpants.xanga.com/770912268/what-a-turn-off/
If their pubes weren't changed in the beginning, it probably won't be later on. When I think I started my sexual peak or drive getting higher, one guy was the opposite and was older. I've dealt with him stopping oral sex after we had real sex. I probably needed to leave a few months earlier but I did leave. And sex isn't everything but we didn't seem close emotionally to have that either.
NUMBER ONE: How dare you speak on behalf of all women. You are not me, and unlike you many other women DO -enjoy seeing their partners orgasm even if they don't-enjoy being talked dirty to while having sex. -prefer men not to shave their pubic hair (for the record: the actual penis itself does not have hair on it. If you're going to misrepresent half of the world's population, at least use the correct terminology for christ's sake)-think that big penis jokes are clever/funny/appealingSo please do not tell men that no women like something just because YOU don't. NUMBER TWO: Pissing and moaning about being stuck home alone waiting on your man is a reflection on you. You can't change anyone else's behavior, only your own. And you accept the love you think you deserve. Thus the only person who ruined your night is you. Find something else to do or someone else to hang out with and maybe you'll be appreciated a little more by your absent man.NUMBER THREE: A man who is working, or with his "homeboys" is not justification for you cheating on him. If your lifestyles are not compatible and no compromise is in sight, break up and let him move on when you do.NUMBER FOUR: Talking about female genitalia like it is some type of resentful animal is pretty rancid. Please find a more literately clever way to describe how you feel.
@IcECaT123@xanga - LOL i dont even know what this means but I like it.
@DrummingMediocrity@xanga - long story short, vaginas are just seriously fucking gross-looking. if you haven't ever seen one, i highly recommend you keep it that way.
@TheNotoriousGOD@xanga - Is that a joke (on both counts)? I've seen plenty of vaginas, including my own. I have (had) also not previously met heterosexual males who feel so negatively about female genitalia.
Men never turned me on
@TheNotoriousGOD@xanga - There's an 87% chance you are joking.
@secretbeerreporter@xanga - Women rule the world. We're made to think they're oppressed by society by liberal politicians like Obama as a means to vote for them, but the truth is women are the new "white male property owners" of society.
@Chibi_Son_Gokou@xanga - You are so right about that. May I suggest some light reading for you? Check out the excellent book The Second Sexism: Discrimination Against Men and Boys by David Benatar. Good stuff.
@TheNotoriousGOD@xanga - You must be gay.
@DrummingMediocrity@xanga - oh wow, really? i feel like i hear a lot of complaints about its appearance ("a lot"). i mean like...it looks like it's going to eat me or something. did you read that recent study that people become less grossed out by things when they're horny? when i think about my own personal reactions to things, it makes so much sense to me.@T3hZ10n@xanga - oh, you better believe it, doll.
@TheNotoriousGOD@xanga - It explains your inability to remain in a monogamous relationship for any significant length of time, your dislike for the appearance of female genitalia, and your incessant overcompensating personality. Seriously, who do you hang around with that you hear complaints about vaginas all the time (well, 'vagina' describes the inside... what you're referring to is likely labia, as you're not going to really see a vagina without something to hold it open and a flashlight)? I don't know a single female who doesn't appreciate the shape/appearance of their genitalia (and though there may be things they want to improve about themselves, at the very least they appreciate their own, female form), not to mention males appreciate it as well... You may have sex with women, but you're only hanging onto your hetero card by a thread, homie.
@DrummingMediocrity@xanga - I love you.
@DrummingMediocrity@xanga - I have hair on my weiner.
@TheNotoriousGOD@xanga - lol, that reminds me of the supposed myth in some of the violent areas of Africa that vaginas have teeth, perhaps perpetrated to minimize the horribly high amount of rape.
@tendollar4ways@xanga - Thank you for sharing that with me. @chronic_masticator@xanga -
@TheNotoriousGOD@xanga - "did you read that recent study that people become less grossed out by things when they're horny?"http://youtu.be/bp-a4dbFEWY?t=4m49sWhat a waste of time and research for something that people have known for millennia. It's not "less grossed out" it's more attracted to.
this post has become hilariously awesome sense the last time I viewed it. Vagina Dentata (Teeth)...ROFL b/c somebody said that men are sucky and they should shave their balls.
@DrummingMediocrity@xanga - wow, i never knew that! sounds crazy. still, to this day, my favorite description of the vajayjay comes from a d-ish post written some years ago: (paraphrased) "it looks like a cross between an acid-spitting demon from outer space and an underwater volcano." @T3hZ10n@xanga - hey babe, since you prefer communicating through youtube videos, i thought i'd dedicate this video to you: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UjAOYDqGcaE @Erika_Steele@xanga - made 40 fucking grand their opening weekend! i wish i could make that much in one weekend.
@DrummingMediocrity@xanga - I like pointing out when you are wrong I guess. Perhaps I was born to be a teacher getting off with my red pen.
@secretbeerreporter@xanga - Not a lot has changed since i took a sabbatical out of blogging, hmm?The funny part is I was thinking about who would write a response, and figured if no one would, I might. That's what I do on Datingish. I make sure the playing field is level, while talking about various other things. But I decide to leave it be because 1) I learned my lesson, when it came to speaking for the majority, and 2) other people alreay responded enough for me to not really do anything, including the woman who has spoken a lot about my "misogynistic" posts.
@mynameisblueskye@xanga - Nothing at all.
@tendollar4ways@xanga - I hope you drown in a sewer.
@DrummingMediocrity@xanga - That is sooome dirty talk!!!! Little dirtier than I prefer and the pen reference wasn't sexual at all but.....;)
@T3hZ10n@xanga - Sewers are not dirty?? I suppose your Ish don't stink neither?
@tendollar4ways@xanga - "Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something." - PlatoYou embody the latter in this case. There was nothing remotely informative or amusing about anything in any of your replies to Drumming. It's like you respond solely to let the person know you exist and that you want to respond with something clever and witty, but your words lack anything resembling either of the two qualities."That is sooome dirty talk!!!!"Clearly it wasn't."I like pointing out when you are wrong I guess.""Little dirtier than I prefer and the pen reference wasn't sexual at all but.....;)"And...? What gave you the impression that she or anyone else commenting gives a fuck what you like or prefer?
@tendollar4ways@xanga - No, sewers are not dirty. In-fact, the sole purpose of a sewer is to keep dirt out so the sewage can reach it's destination unimpeded. They're not sexually explicit either.
@T3hZ10n@xanga - So Sewage isn't dirty then.
@tendollar4ways@xanga - Disgusting, maybe. Not dirty. http://youtu.be/MADdmu9NIEk?t=34s
@tendollar4ways@xanga - Sorry but I have a natural repulsion to Statists. Plus my boyfriend, an expert at building and shooting assault rifles, feels the same way.
I've been around guys like you just described, but I found them reprehensible, and they found me to be a frigid bitch and unappealing as a woman. I stick to guys who leave the "on" button "on".
You used plurals in here that sound like you're talking for everyone. No. I don't give two shots if a guy shaves his pubes or not. It's a simple matter of checking while playing with hands before you suck.My man can have bad morning breath but I'll still kiss him, still cuddle with him. Normally that would have been a turn off for me. You just have to find the fit guy. There are things he does from time to time that I would never have accepted with others but I do with him because there is reason. That, and I grew up.
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