July 26, 2013
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And That's How I Get What I Want
About a month ago, several friends and I went to our friend's beach house. At around four in the morning a couple of us were feeling restless, so we decided to go skinny dipping. (It can feel quite liberating for those who haven't tried it.) After chatting and swimming around for a while, we started to head back inside. We only had one towel, so we had to get out of the pool one by one to dry off and get dressed. As my friend, Tina*, dried off my other friend commented, "Tina, you are all types of landscaped down there." Tina looked down, giggled and replied, "and that's how I get what I want so often."
In this particular case, what Tina wanted was oral sex. Earlier in the night, we actually were talking about getting eaten out. Tina noted that she could not remember her last hook up where she did not get eaten out. My other friend, Katherine*, agreed, but she knew that was because she had a boyfriend.
Tina and the friend who first made the comment about Tina's manicuring choices do not have boyfriends. My friend commented on how she barely got eaten out during hook ups and admitted that she did not feel comfortable asking for it (even though she wanted it). "You have to know that you deserve it," Tina explained, "if you know it, he will know it. And do it. It's all about the attitude."
After our late night swim, though, apparently it is not all about the attitude. (At least when you are not in a relationship.) Apparently being well-shaven down there can also help get what you want down there.
How much does manicuring down there matter? When it comes to oral sex, how much is attitude a factor? Ladies, do you even enjoy oral (I know some who do not)? Guys, how willing are you to go down on a girl?
Comments (16)
Different guys like different things but since the porn industry started showing girls manicured or bald down there, a lot of younger guys think that's what it should look like.They find hair not that appealing and many girls also like their guys manicured now.Also, you mentioned that your other friend didn't feel comfortable with it which has a lot to do with her not getting oral. Some guys really enjoy it but aren't going to offer if they think they're going to get shot down or sense that she doesn't like it.
These questions are stupid. I'm glad Xanga is closing down.
@AutumnStrength@xanga - Considering that most of Datingish posts are written by high schoolers to college age kids, what do you expect? Want to see something of substance, write something.
@AutumnStrength@xanga - Indeed they are. It's conversations like this that keep women in the immature mentality that we somehow need to change something about ourselves. However, in this instance, it is relevant because I'm sure you wouldn't be kosher going down on a girl who looks like she hasn't even trimmed down there EVER. And, women (girls?) 24ish and below are obsessed with outward appearances and how the special man in their life perceives them. Unfortunate, but true.
I actually submitted a post about this a few years ago.I don't like oral, because it just feel disgusting. Also my boyfriend has the shortest tongue ever... it barely even sticks out of his mouth when he extends it all the way. So it wouldn't even matter if I did like it. =/I don't think hair has anything to do with it. If you're too afraid to ask for it, you shouldn't be having sex with that person. One night stands are not meant to satisfy all your sexual needs... that's what a significant other is for. When you are comfortable enough to tell someone what you want/like sexually, that's when you're going to get what you want. Not from talking to them for a few hours at a bar and taking them home drunk. Just sayin'.xX Ame ~*~ Hana Xx
@AutumnStrength@xanga - Anyone who is glad to see Xanga go, should never have been here in the first place. This place is home to some of us, and you will never understand that. You haven't even been here for a year yet. If you had joined earlier, you'd understand.xX Ame ~*~ Hana Xx
i'd rather give than receive. that being said, i'd expect the person i'm giving to, to be well manicured. if i'm expected to receive, then i would do the same courtesy as well. i just enjoy being well manicured for hygiene reasons though. it's just a courtesy thing.
@Mansonschicks@xanga - I would more than kosher going down on a woman who hasn't trimmed at all! I would be much less kosher going down on a woman who shaves it all off. I find women's pubic hair incredibly sexy - the bushier the better!
@Broken_Black_Moon@xanga - I'm glad to see it go because 1) of the last month or so - the endless posts about it's closure 2) people trying to raise $60,000 for management who have proved they don't deserve it and won't use it wisely 3) the endless datingish posts about stupid shit like pubes, minge tasting of pineapple, whether having your minge licked by another man is cheating (wtf?), and other pointless crap 4) all the people I wanted to keep in touch with I am now friends with on wordpress.
@AutumnStrength@xanga - If the posts are why you're here, you don't understand what Xanga is about. I don't care what's posted on here, at all. I was here way before all the "top blogs" and the "datingish" and "lovelyish" crap. Like I said before, if you had joined earlier, you would understand. Xanga isn't about meeting people or commenting/reading other blogs. It's about you. It's about your life. That's the real Xanga.And WordPress is a bitch to use. Ugh.xX Ame ~*~ Hana Xx
For me, Xanga IS about meeting people and commenting/reading other blogs. It's also about making the odd post myself and getting other peoples feedback/opinion on what I've been thinking about. Xanga is ABOUT different things for different people. YOUR definition of what it is 'about' is not THE definition for everyone, so shut yer cake hole!
All I know is that I appreciate that my boyfriend trims his hair, and I prefer when girls trim or shave/wax. Less hair in your mouth/face.
I love giving oral to my wife, because I love what it does to her. To me, giving her a couple extra orgasms before the main event is an expression of love. That being said, I am grateful she is not super hairy. It gets even harder to breathe when there is a forest down there. It wouldn't stop me, but it makes my experience more pleasant.I tried trimming for her and she hated it. She said she'd rather have soft hair than sharp, "poke-y" cut ends.I'd rather give than receive. I know that's unusual for a guy, but I only rarely get off that way. It's great foreplay, but I want the main event.
@AutumnStrength - point taken. But, it's all preference. If the guy is great at that, sure I'll trim up if he asks. But, it takes a lot for me to be that motivated haha.
@Mansonschicks@xanga - It takes a lot for you to be motivated to trim your bush? That's good. I like women who couldn't give much of a fuck about looking how they're told they should. I find vanity quite unattractive.
@AutumnStrength - then you'd love me haha!
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